What a fantastic first date it was. She was beautiful! She even let you give her a little kiss on the cheek when you said good night.
The second date was even better. They chatted for a long time and exchanged every detail of their life stories. And you have to kiss her on both cheeks.
On the third date, they talked about her job and what she likes to do. You clearly have a lot in common. Wow, that kiss on her lips was good! Too bad it didn’t last longer.
Fourth date: we are so compatible. Everything is going perfectly. Even the kiss at the end of the date. So romantic, it would have been nice to have found a bit of language.
So you are ready for your fifth date with this wonderful woman who has stolen your heart. You suspect there’s ‘something in the air’ and tonight could be the night you ‘seal your relationship’.
Fool! You complete and utter fool!
you are never He is going to have sex with this woman. And you know what? She decided that on the first date.
You’re a good boy’. She really likes you and she is very happy to count you among her friends. Among her male friends, of which there are quite a few. All of them thinking that one day they will be able to have sex with this woman.
But none of them will. There are three reasons why women collect male friends they don’t want to have sex with…
1. To do ‘manly type’ jobs for her: fixing her car, carrying some things, tending her barbecue at a party.
2. To access its male friends. Who knows, there might be someone hot among them.
3. Caution. Women love attention from men. It’s almost as good as sex for them.
So, at some point in your dating a woman, you have to decide whether or not she wants you as a mere friend or if things can go further.
And the way to do it is the ‘kiss test’ which I describe in detail on page 166 of my eBook, ‘Online Dating Tips for Men’.
You must take this test no later than date #2. You have to be bold and make a firm move: any sign of faltering and you’re history.
This is what can happen…
She could turn her head and it will become a kiss on the cheek. (That means no sex for you, dude, ever!)
She may let you kiss her on the lips (it won’t happen by accident). But if she backs off, she’s not interested either.
No, unless you get a proper full kiss on the second date, you’re completely wasting your time.
Unless you just want to be a friend, that is 😉