Getting the girl of your dreams is a lot like getting the car of your dreams. But unlike a car you can always bargain for, there’s nothing like 20 percent off to woo the girl of your dreams, she’s such a sweet thing to be discounted, you’re deeply in love with her and your feelings for her. it can only be communicated not by the words of the mouth, but by the words of the heart. Getting the girl actually depends on how big your heart is: weak hearted, the pretty lady never won.
The first step in the exercise of winning hearts for any man is to make a good impression. By doing so, you don’t have to talk, dress, or do the common things that all Toms do to get a decent girl’s attention. Be unique, that’s all you need. Being a man with his own style. Dress decently – indecency can cause one to be mistaken for arrogance; Take care of your language: obscene language gives the impression of immaturity, of being uneducated and cheap; be a man of good habits – don’t drink or smoke like any other loser.
Let him fall in love little by little. Romance is an important part of falling in love. When I was in college, I fell in love with the most beautiful lady in our freshman group. Even though all the older boys went looking for that girl, I managed to divert the attention of her from the other boys. I wrote her three letters without revealing my identity and slipped into her room secretly; all I said was ‘Your secret admirer’. The first letter contained the meaning of her name, I got this by playing with the initials of her name to give it meaning. The second was a funny message that could only be read backwards and was about her physique and her intelligence. In the third letter, she told the girl to be ready to receive a rose from her admirer, but only if she was kind enough to call him at a number she had included in the letter. The girl called me on the phone that same night, and her first words to me were, “Hello, secret admirer.” This is how the story of our love story was born. Later she told me that it was very creative of me, no one had ever approached her like that. She made her fall in love with me romantically.
Befriending and understanding the girl you want to get is the next important thing. This is what I also did. You have to understand that as a lady, she loves to be loved, she loves to be adored, and she needs to be needed. This will bring you closer to the girl and you will know what she likes, what she likes and what she doesn’t, and what is her style. Love is based on friendship and always leaves people better off knowing each other in case they get separated. My college partner and I were going to break up some time later, but to date, we’re the best of friends. Make sure that bringing out the selfless friend in you will cause her to create a place for you in her heart.
A shoulder to lean on and a good friend she can always turn to is all a lady wants. Please feel free to be helpful and supportive. Be that friend who reignites his hard-working zeal and brings hope back into his life when he loses hope. This, above all other things, will make you her daily vitamin simply because you bring out the best in her in terms of personality and character. In you, she will have found that friend with whom she can open up, share and advise each other about the good and the bad, what should and should not be done in life. Don’t forget to always be there to celebrate the good times and lend an ear when the girl needs you to listen as a friend.
Make the girl feel special; because she is someone’s friend, your friend, and let her know that she, too, has touched your life in a unique way like no one else ever could. Compliment her for her company and for being there when you needed her, when you felt sad and alone. Show appreciation for the comfort the girl offers you and for making you smile.
In your daily conversations, share your dreams, your world, and all aspects of your life with your girl. He always dreams with her, builds with her, and always encourages and encourages her. Tell your girl that you always think of her, even when you try not to think of her. Let the girl know that it’s the first thing you do in the morning and the last thing you do when you go to bed at night.
She, knowing that you were thinking of her when you slipped under the softness of your blanket and surrendered to the bliss of sweet dreams, will make her say ‘my my’ and her heart will sing your name all year long.
You have to be creative and constructive to keep the girl’s interest in you so full of life. I remember once telling my girlfriend to pretend that we are both deaf and dumb. We then sit across from each other at the table and begin to share our feelings for each other using eye and hand gestures. It turned out to be kind of fun. There was also this time when we were in the library and we decided we weren’t going to verbally talk to each other, so I wrote a love note on a piece of paper and passed it to her on the table, she replied and we went on and on. we continue our love talk on paper until we almost used up an entire edge of paper. At some point, I noticed that some of the guys sitting with us at the table were enjoying our ordeal more than their studies. Such are the things that made the girl embrace my world. I remember her suggesting that we turn our deaf ears two years after we broke up, can you imagine that?
Never stop calling her, even when she least expects it. I once called a girl I was interested in at four in the morning. When she asked me what she was doing up so early, I told her that she was in thirteenth heaven, where people think of their loved ones when they can’t sleep. Wow! First thing the next morning, she was at my door with a big hug for me.
No matter how many dates you take her, don’t do any elbowing, over-moving after any date, just drop her home and with a friendly handshake, say good night. Don’t kiss her when she expects you to. Your respect as a gentleman will be earned by how patient you are with her when it comes to matters like kissing her and accessing her inner graces.
It’s written on the wall that you want her, but you can’t have her yet. Increase your demand. Try to show her that men are also hard to get sometimes. Make her realize that when she feels a little dizzy, a little tired, a little sad, a little sick, very bored and very cold, she is actually missing the vitamin you. At that time, she will be very interested in you and since love is sincere and characterized by open and honest communication, she honestly promise her your eternal devotion, loyalty, respect and unconditional love for life. Show her that you will always be there for her, to listen to her and hold her hand, and that you will always do everything possible to make her happy and feel loved.
Remember, patience is the key to your heart; be like that gardener who looks at a fruit as it hangs on the tree, day after day admiring it, but exercising tremendous self-discipline, not feeling the fruit, not pinching it, not tasting it to see if it is ready. And then one day he reaches out his hand and the fruit just falls into it, ripe and warm and eager to be eaten.
The patience and self-control you practice will make you more attractive and charming. This will qualify you as her daily vitamin and win that heart of hers.
I wish you to meet the girl of your dreams as soon as possible, to fall in love with you and to feel like the happiest girl in the world!