Hears! I don’t think your Christmas is going so well. You still miss your ex and want to get him back, right? I was in your shoes last year. I thought about it this Christmas Eve. I got my girl back and we are deeply in love. So I decided to write this article so that I can help people like you get your ex back for New Year’s Eve.
If you follow all the techniques outlined in this article, you have a 90% chance of getting your ex back by New Years Eve and a 99% chance of getting your ex back in a month from now. The remaining one percent is on your shoulders. Does it depend on how much you want them back? Are you committed to listening to my techniques and recommendations? If you take action on my recommendations, you are guaranteed to win your ex back. I pray that you get your ex back.
Step # 1 – Get them to call you
This step is for those whose ex has been ignoring them for a while. If your ex ignores you and doesn’t answer your calls, use this trick. Send them a thoughtful message. You can send a message or leave a voice message. It’s your choice. But make sure your voice is perfect and you don’t get excited midway through. Getting excited will ruin things.
Your message should spark curiosity and personal interest in your ex. When you try to hide something, people are more curious to know. Humans cannot resist secrets. So use the principle of curiosity to your advantage.
Your message should talk about a secret that involves your ex. don’t reveal the secret yet. Make them fight!
Here is an example of a message that you should not send:
“Hello, {Name}. It’s me. Merry Christmas! Call me, I want to talk to you about something important”
You will never get a callback if you send a message like that.
Here is an example of a message that sparks curiosity and self-interest:
“Hi, {Name}. It’s me. Merry Christmas! I wanted to let you know that I appreciate what you did for me. Call me because I want to thank you in person.”
Your ex will call you in a few minutes. It works one hundred percent of the time. So get ready for the call.
Step # 2 Emotional detachment
Emotional detachment is very important if you are looking for success. Emotions have the power to overload or make you nervous. If your heart is full of positive emotions such as hope, happiness, courage, love, faith, etc., everything will be fine for you. Things will be fine even if you make mistakes.
Unfortunately, we are human. We do not control our own emotions. We can control spaceships, animals, etc. but we don’t have much control over our own emotions. The doubts are in place. Doubts can get in the way and cause a lot of anxiety. That anxiety can ruin your plans.
That is why you have to detach yourself emotionally from the result. Emotional detachment means two different things.
“In the first meaning, it refers to the inability to connect emotionally with others, as well as a means of dealing with anxiety by preventing certain situations that trigger it; it is often described as” emotional numbness “or dissociation.” – Wikipedia
“In the second sense, it is a type of mental assertiveness that allows people to maintain their limits and psychic integrity in the face of the emotional demands of another person or group of people. These senses are found in the framework of psychology and academia, not of those of everyone else in the world. ” – Wikipedia
I mean the second. You have your own interests. You must follow their behavior and actions to protect your own interests. There are four types of behaviors:
- Win-win behavior
- Win-lose behavior
- Lose-win behavior
- Lose-lose behavior
Win-win behavior – The bravest people are those who have this pattern of behavior. You must adapt to this pattern of behavior if you want to live a life full of happiness and joy.
Both must win. But first you must win. Help yourself so that you can help others. Your ex wouldn’t have broken up with you if you had this pattern of behavior. This behavior is the coolest. Abraham Lincoln is the ideal example of this behavior.
Win-lose behavior – This is a pattern of behavior adapted by people who have a lot of anxiety. There are examples of people with this behavior available throughout history. Take a look at Hitler, Mussolini, etc. This pattern of behavior leads to failed relationships.
Lose-win behavior – This is called self-denial, also known as sacrificing yourself for the good of others. Martyrs are an example of this kind of behavior. Your ex could have broken up with you if you had this pattern of behavior.
Lose-lose behavior – Jihadist terrorists and suicide bombers are an example of this.
Develop a pattern of mutually beneficial behavior. Mental assertiveness should not be confused with being deliberately cold or unpleasant, because it is a positive mental attitude (win-win behavior pattern).
Step # 3 Be mature
Time to grow up. Take some responsibility. Your partner would not have left you without a specific reason. Find out why they left you? It takes about twenty minutes to analyze. Write down all the problems.
If they’ve made any mistakes, tell them you’re sorry (just once, no more than once!). Accept your mistakes and solve them. Create an action plan to solve those problems.
Step # 4 Mother yourself
Don’t criticize yourself for any reason. You are deep and rich inside. You are truly wonderful. You love your ex and decided to seek help. Most people never do that. It tells me how cool you are inside. Believe me, only a few in this world will even choose to get help solving their love problems. They all have a lot of ego.
Say nice things to yourself. Write a list of affirmations and repeat the affirmations to yourself repeatedly. Make sure you eat good food. Don’t lock yourself in a room as punishment. Tonight, go out to the bar and hang out with your friends. Have some good conversations with the people you see at the bar.
Step # 5 Grow
“Commit to CAN! – Constant and Endless Improvement” – Anthony Robbins. Time for a little introspection. Find out where you are in your life.
- If you are overweight, lose weight.
- If you are thin, build muscle.
- Get a new title
- Get a raise
Set goals, create plans, and stick with those plans. I recommend that you read Think and Grow Rich by Napoleon Hill. It is a truly life-changing book that will help you achieve whatever you want in life.
Do things to improve your personality. If you’re not good with humor, read Comedy Writing Secrets.
Step # 6 Connect with your ex
If you want your ex back, you have to connect with your ex. Connect with them and let them know that you really care about their life. Ask them:
How are you doing?
What do they like to do the most? (Shortly after they respond, ask why they don’t.)
Which are your future plans?
Also talk about your life. Talk about your plans, the things you did, the changes you made.
Get close to your ex and develop mutual trust and respect. Call them on the third day and invite them to a party on New Year’s Eve. Invite your friends too. Call your friends and organize a party. If not, ask a friend of yours to host the party. Tell your ex that your friend wants you to come. They will please you.
Step # 7 Expand sexual attraction and tension
During the party, dance with one of your ex’s friends. Dance with someone else and let them be alone for a while. They are sure to get very jealous. When they are looking at you, ignore them for a moment. And then suddenly, walk up to them and start a conversation. Everything should happen suddenly, that is, accidentally. Your ex must feel like it happened accidentally. Serendipity is so romantic!
Immediately leave them for a while. Come back and have them dance with you. Don’t order them for a dance. Pull on them and start dancing. They will both kiss soon. And this is how you can get your ex back for New Years Eve. The plan has been revealed to you. During your trip, watch these movies and learn something from them. These are the movies you should watch:
- Rhonda Byrne’s The Secret (Download it online. No time to hire it)
- Fight Club (if you’re a man, watch Tyler Durden)
- Count of Monte Cristo (If you are a man. Watch how the character Edmond Dantes becomes the Count of Monte Cristo)