Have you chased a guy so much that it seems like he’s no longer interested in you? This is not an impossible situation: you can get your interest back. Just follow these steps and you will surely find a way to divert your attention.
Disconnect
Avoid texting, instant messaging, and voicemail. This will start thinking about what happened to you. He will wonder why you are not chasing him. Keep in mind that to achieve this successfully, you need to have discipline and self-control.
Push yourself to get
Playing hard to get really works when you need to win back a guy’s interest. This is because men like the thrill of the chase and will chase down women who don’t show much interest after paying attention to it for some time.
Be still, your heart
You may want to change your attitude after chasing a man too much. Don’t show him your true feelings. Always keep your composure, even when it’s only a few feet from you. Try not to show him that you are aware of his presence and that he is affecting you in some way.
Get a makeover
Wear flirty clothes that can get their attention. Buy yourself some new clothes, get a nice haircut, and put on some new makeup. A change in appearance may suggest that you have changed. You want to arouse their curiosity. What exactly changed about you? The more you make him think, the more attention he will give you, which is what you are looking for.
Not be available
Do not answer their calls. This will make it look like you’ve lost interest in it. The point is to make you wonder what exactly happened to change the way things were. Eventually, he will want to know what happened to the woman who used to haunt him and start paying more attention to you.
Safe look
Make him believe that even if you’ve been chasing him a lot, you’re still the confident woman that you are. This may seem a bit difficult, since you have been chasing him for a while, but a woman who is confident is a pedestal of assured positive energy that can rekindle your curiosity.
Respect yourself
Even if it was you who did all the chasing, you still have to respect yourself! If you can’t get your interest back, try to get over it and move on. There are better things for you, and the sooner you master yourself, the sooner you will start acting more confident, and we have established that confidence is quite attractive to men.
Who knows, it might even get your interest back!