In fact, marriages are made in heaven. But is it applicable to all girls? Well, as far as my opinion goes, it’s a big NO. By the time she turns 18, her parents begin to think that she may never marry if she continues to be career oriented. Then her parents or boyfriend push her into a married life, where the scene takes a huge turn. The first adventure comes as a circus show where everyone comes to see the ‘new daughter-in-law’. She must be beautiful and smart to win the top spot. Her face must resemble that of the goddess Lakshmi and she must be a scholar. When all the neighbors and family members appreciate her in all respects, she wins the position of an ideal daughter-in-law. Well, all the thanks and compliments were given without even knowing his name. Then her perfect figure and hair enter the scene. Oh Lord! Add enormous value to your reputation.
A competent worker
Let’s check your work capacity. Wait a minute; Are you working in an office or at home? Poor me! The girl, who has an extraordinary education and held a managerial position in her office, is expected to know all the household chores. How will you know? She was busy studying and building her career. He hardly had time to relax. His mother was in charge of cooking and washing clothes. But the in-laws, who are also parents to a girl, expect this from their supposed daughter.
Sacrifice is only expected of wives
The girl sacrifices her name, room, the comfort of her mother’s arms, the security of her father’s presence, work, hobbies, privacy, and even her identity, just to be a cook and a servant. But the irony is that when the same people turn from in-laws to parents of their beloved daughter, they become overprotective. They expect their son-in-law to stay at their home, where all the royal arrangements will be made by their daughter-in-law and thanks will be gathered for them. But, you never want your child to stay in the place of his father-in-law. Does this girl who had a bright future deserve? She could have been the boss of people who are equivalent to her husband. But he chose to sacrifice it out of love and respect.
What is our future?
This is the scene of every home. I don’t know where we are going. Being a mother of a girl, I am really worried about her future. After all, our society does not accept a single girl. So the bottom line is to raise her like a guinea pig and hand her over to people who don’t care about her or her opinions at all. Where will we be in twenty years? It is up to us young people. If we raise our children to respect women and their feelings, the scenario can change. Girls should also be taught to respect others and to be self-reliant.
Conclution
If the children are allowed to sleep until their desired time, so should your wife. If a wife can cook after work, so can husbands. In this way, our country could find happier and healthier families. Bosnism and slavery will be wiped off the face of society and nuclear families will unite to become one. An equal right reaches the same position and we can definitely hope to see a better future.