So what exactly can a woman do to make sure she gets her lesbian ex girlfriend back?
Maybe lately you’ve been feeling that no matter what you try, everything you do seems to push your ex-girlfriend further and further, right?
Can you identify with that?
And right now, and maybe every minute of the day, you are asking yourself the same thing: what can you do to get your ex girlfriend back?
I’ve put together some mini tips that are easy to use and most important that will greatly increase your chances of making sure you return with your lost love.
Ok, obviously right at this moment, you take the idea of saving your old relationship very seriously, right?
That’s what finally got you to this page in the first place!
But unfortunately his current demeanor could be hampering any chance of getting back with his ex-girlfriend!
In fact, if you are VERY ANXIOUS about getting your ex back, then you are almost certainly misbehaving, causing your ex girlfriend to naturally walk away.
You may even be given more reasons NOT to get back with you, and we certainly don’t want that, do we?
I understand that your behavior is simply human nature to behave the way you do, we’ve all been through that, but honestly, it’s natural for your ex girlfriend to resist this kind of pressure.
So ultimately you are making her fight human nature and that is completely useless, it will push her too far, past a point of no return and it will just make things worse.
One of the biggest mistakes you can make is calling your ex girlfriend too much, I know that maybe you really miss her, and that you think that if you keep phoning she will eventually succumb to your advances, but trust me you don’t.
If you honestly take a look at how he’s behaving, do you think you may be calling your ex too much?
Or maybe you’ve taken the route of constant emails?
Or worse yet, constantly bombarding her with text messages?
All you will do is make your ex girlfriend feel sorry for you.
Now you may think that the sympathy vote is better than nothing, but all you’re doing is looking needy in the eyes of your ex-girlfriend.
This is NOT the way to get your ex girlfriend back.
So what can you do to get your ex girlfriend back? You have to take a step back!
First you have to stop:
Calling all the time.
Send emails all the time.
Send text messages all the time.
You need to stop doing any of the above RIGHT NOW!
Instead you want to take a completely surprising approach, the element of surprise will be your new best friend!
You have to start by stopping all contact with your ex for a while.
Do not panic, she will not forget about you, in fact, by ceasing all contact, it will make her think about you even more!
Now, while she wonders why you left all contact, you are going to stay doing your thing.
Throughout this period of no contact with your ex-girlfriend, you will focus on ways that you can improve your own personal life.
You will not be sulking about the problems in your current relationship.
You will become disciplined and face new challenges, nothing too difficult, just general things that will improve your life immensely and prevent you from going back to your old ways of “constant contact with your ex girlfriend”.
Now, while you are improving your own life, the other side of the coin will see that your ex girlfriend is surely going through an emotional change in how she feels about you.
Since you are no longer actively chasing her, you have suddenly become more mysterious to her, because she has lost control of knowing that you have ever moved, now she is not sure what you are doing or what you are feeling.
You see that no contact has forced your ex to think about you even more, which is an important step in getting your ex back, well done!
By giving your ex girlfriend some real breathing space, you’ve given her a chance to miss you again.
Now you must remember to work with human nature and not against it, human nature will help you get your ex girlfriend back in no time.
So now you know a big mistake to avoid, don’t suffocate your ex, give him time to wonderfully miss you!
Here’s a quick summary:
Don’t suffocate your ex girlfriend.
Make yourself look mysterious.
Play hard to get it (but not too hard!).
and above all let her take the first step.
Very soon you will have your ex girlfriend back in your arms, where she belongs.