The pain of you liking a girl you are “just friends with” is almost unbearable. Sadly, not many men know how to break down the friendship barriers to truly forge a relationship with the girl, and thus they are doomed to remain “just friends” forever. You, on the other hand, have started reading this article and, as such, the secrets contained in its passages will allow you to overcome the friendship barrier and make the girl finally want to be with you.
“- Challenge her.” Being a friend is the absolute enemy of everything you want to achieve. In fact, most likely the reason you are her friend is because you were there for her at some point in the past and now she is turning to you for emotional comfort. What you are is effectively your emotional buffer. STOP BEING YOUR EMOTIONAL SHOCK ABSORBER. Seriously, if you want the girl, be proud of yourself and stand up! Tell him that you no longer want to hear about his problems with boys. I’m not saying you should stop talking to her completely; you just need to draw the line somewhere. When the conversation starts to get emotional, it’s time to stop being her friend.
“- Stimulate your senses”. Of the five senses, touch can have the greatest effect on a woman if used correctly. I am not referring to the intimate physical contact of sexual encounters; I mean the bond that forms the touches of a boyfriend and a girlfriend. Holding her hand when she crosses the street and leaning toward her with your hand on her leg when she speaks to her – these things will send you a message of physical intimacy that you will understand immediately. I am NOT recommending that you immediately start grabbing her left, right, and center, just touch her harmlessly in non-sexual places like her hand, knees, and lower back.