Let’s face it ladies, this is nothing more than the proverbial “ego stroking.” However, if you already have a man who is overly self-assured and proud of himself, then this is the wrong article for you. You may need to look up “how to bring my guy back to Earth”, instead.
From now on, he will say and do things that will improve his view of himself, as well as his view of how he treats you.
Moral…
In addition to his ego, increasing his sense of morality in his relationship with you will tell him that he is doing a great job of satisfying your feminine needs. He really has a double benefit: he knows he’s doing a great job and he also knows what he should NOT do to keep it that way.
If you think you can change it, think again…
Small behavioral or habitual problems can be rounded off, yes. But letting him be the man God created is vital. By accepting this, he is going a long way toward helping him feel good about himself, without making him feel like he has to adjust himself to fit into his “mold.”
Sometimes, it’s really the little things and gestures that matter…
Having a culinary delight ready for him after a hard day is sure to make almost any man feel better. Surprise him with a gift, big or small, that he never expected and that you know will bring a big smile to his face. Even just calling or texting your man with a simple “I love you so much and you mean everything to me” can inspire his ego and morale to new heights.
Be open minded…
This theory means that you, unlike most women, maintain an open mind, a brain that generally does not accept issues and problems as they appear on the surface. Maybe he had a horrible day at work and he’s pretty cranky with you. Talk it over over dinner and get to the root of the problem, offer helpful hints/advice, and reassure him that you want to help him in any way you can. However, you should not be authoritative about it.
Let me work for you…
If your man is the stereotypical handyman type, inspire him to paint the bedroom wall a fresh color or have him fix something around the house that he knows you probably won’t know how to do. By doing so, his ego will either grow a bit or hold his own where he belongs. He will, or should, feel very good about himself knowing that his lady is counting on him so much.
You already know what he likes and what he doesn’t like, now use it to your advantage…
Propose to go to that movie he’s craving to see, even if it’s a zombie fest full of gore and gore. If he loves to fish, don’t be afraid (once in a while) to dress up and grab a tackle box yourself and offer to tag along. You get the idea: show him that you really care about sharing your life with him.
It’s about basic psychology…
Remember the first date the two of you had. She re-imagines the feelings of desire, need, and excitement that went through her mind back then. While it may not be easy at times, especially if your relationship is going through difficult times, being able to do it will not only inspire you to try to rekindle your relationship, but it will also make you feel good and remember why the two of you their are together.