I can see you sitting there with your phone in hand, wanting to text that hot girl you managed to talk into giving you her number. They hit it off great last night and now he wants to talk to her and ask her out but he’s not sure how to start a text conversation with a girl.
It’s understandable and quite easy for you to say something that a girl would misinterpret over text. Texting a girl isn’t rocket science, but you do need to have some basic text flirting skills and do it right.
The payoff, of course, is that she is totally into you and begging to go out with you. But if you don’t know what to text a girl, the opposite can just as easily happen. That girl who was hot for you last night, she’ll turn you off and delete your number if you send her the wrong text.
Here are a couple of tips on how to text a girl and spark her interest in you so that she is willing to go out with you.
Confirm that she is not busy.
Don’t just text, “Wassup” or something, but find out if she’s busy or has time to pay attention to your flirtations. There’s no need to fight for your attention when you’re with family or at work!
Text him once and then let him sit.
Once you send that first text, wait before sending another. Don’t worry if she doesn’t respond right away. Flirting over text is a game of patience, so relax and be cool.
Don’t spam their phone.
Once you’re in a conversation, don’t keep blowing up her phone if she stops answering. You may have been able to send a text and then something happened. Texting a girl over and over again without replying to her is definitely a desperate freak factor.
Start slow and keep it casual.
You need to build his interest when you’re flirting over text before you jump into setting up a date. The better you are at texting a girl, the faster you can close a date, but don’t start with “Remember me? Want to hang out tomorrow?”
Don’t get romantic or sexual too soon.
You may think girls want to hear you profess your undying love like a cheesy romance movie, but if you start this kind of nonsense, you’ll be placed in the creepy stalker category and you’re done!
Knowing what to text a girl takes practice. I also suggest getting as many guides on how to flirt with a girl and doing as much research (and practice) as possible. While you can learn a lot on your own, getting good reference material is a great way to get you on the fast track to becoming a text messaging superstar.