My husband doesn’t love me. That’s a horrible thing for any woman to feel, let alone say out loud. When you start to feel like the man you married doesn’t like you, it makes you question the status and future of your relationship. How can you go on living with someone who hates you? How can you leave him when you still love him despite what he feels? It’s a heartbreaking position to be in. If you want to win back the love you once shared, don’t give up. You can change the dynamics of your marriage and make your husband love you more than ever.
It is very easy to misinterpret how your husband feels about you. It’s not like most men are an open book when it comes to sharing their emotions with their wives. They shut up and leave us to our own devices to figure out what all those signs it’s giving us mean. That is why you cannot rush to the conclusion that your husband does not like you. He may be confusing his anxiety about something else or his unhappiness with life in general for a dislike of you.
To find out what you really feel, it’s a good idea to do a little experiment. Over the next two weeks, she will treat her husband differently. You’re going to treat him exactly how you want him to treat you. Let go of any feelings of how unbalanced your marriage is right now, and bury any resentment you feel. For now, you will become the mirror image of the person you wish you were. Pamper her, tell her that she loves him all the time, and be as compassionate and kind as she can be. In many cases, when a woman changes the dynamics of a marriage in this way, her husband will do the same. He may be hiding her feelings under the surface just because he isn’t sure how you feel, too.
Obviously, every successful marriage is based on open communication. It can be difficult for her spouse to talk to you if your conversations often ended in conflict. You have to lead the way when it comes to calm and more productive discussions. Start talking more with your spouse about everyday matters. Maintain a calm demeanor at all times and always listen to what he has to say. If you show him in this way that you’re not going to verbally attack him when you talk, he’ll be much more open to sharing his feelings with you about everything, including marriage.