Admit it: you’ve already tried everything to get your ex back. You have sent her love letters, flowers, postcards, and emails, to no avail. She is just as distant as before, and all you can show for your efforts is a broken heart and shattered dreams.
Are you worried that it will be impossible to get your ex back? Well, freight no. In 90% of the cases, you can always get your ex back, and in this article you will find out how I got my ex back in just 17 days.
First, you need to take a hard look at what you’re doing and ask yourself how your ex feels. Do you think she is delighted every time you call her or send her a love letter? Or, more likely, she says “Wow, not him again?”
You can probably see where I’m going with this. Right now, you’re the last person he wants to hear from. This may change in the future, but for now, you need to give her the breathing room she needs to recover and decide what she really wants. And trust me, if you give him the distance he craves, he’ll thank you later.
This method is known as the “No Contact” technique and has helped restore hundreds of thousands of relationships worldwide. Bottom line, he just needs to stop talking to his ex for at least two weeks. This gives her the time away from you that she needs to contemplate the breakup and decide for herself if she really wants to lose you forever.
In the meantime, you can use this time as an opportunity to heal emotionally. The sad truth is that your ex will never get back together with you if you can’t get over the breakup. I know how romantic it sounds to be the heartbroken and desperate lover; but that kind of thing only works in the movies. Actually, you need to show your ex that you’re over the breakup before she even considers getting you back.