Since the breakup, you have been constantly calling your ex to try to talk about the issues that caused the relationship to fail, but so far you have not been able to get in touch with him/her. You’re losing all hope, you’re depressed, and you’re pretty sure you’re never going to be able to get your ex back. Actually, the way she is doing it right now will definitely ensure her failure.
Your ex doesn’t want to talk to you right now. He/she has made this very clear. Stop trying to get your ex back by constantly trying to make contact with him/her. You are doing more damage to the already bad situation. Leave your ex alone to work through the pain of the breakup her way first, then, and only then, maybe you can think about contacting him about starting the relationship over again.
In fact, you have lost all self-control and are not thinking clearly. You also have to give yourself time to get over the breakup, so that when you try to get your ex back, it’s by talking, not by begging and pleading. This behavior will only make you appear weak and unattractive in the eyes of your ex. You must be able to offer your ex a positive and happy person, to convince him that getting back together will be good for both of you. You need time to become this kind of person.
Start the process by forcing yourself to think positively about the future. Get involved with your friends and family and stay busy all the time. Slowly but surely, you will start enjoying your life again and wake up in the morning happy and ready to face the day, instead of starting the day by telling yourself that life isn’t worth living anymore if you can’t. get your ex back
One other thing, don’t be hard on yourself and don’t take all the blame for the break up. Your ex was probably partly to blame as well. This is how it is in human nature, and most of the time after a breakup, couples realize their mistakes and get back together. If you and your ex love each other, you’ll get over the trauma of the breakup and most likely get back together, but don’t try to rush things.
Just be patient and let nature take its course, and after a while, when all the hurt and anger has subsided, there is a very good chance that you will get your ex back. At that point, you, like your ex, will feel very differently about each other and will be able to see each other face to face in a friendly way. So any discussion about getting back together will be done in a positive way, rather than a negative one.