If you reacted in the typical way when it was clear your boyfriend was leaving, then you have very little chance of making amends. Crying and begging for one more chance is probably the worst thing you could have done with this crisis. You have to realize that you will not get back together with your ex boyfriend.
This is why:
– You have contacted him repeatedly.
You must have forgotten the age-old wisdom that tells us “absence makes the heart grow fond”. This means that you have to be away for her heart to soften! You tried to stay in the forefront of his mind. You thought you could only get back together with your ex boyfriend if they didn’t forget you. Now you have pushed him as far away from you as he can.
– You have repeatedly apologized.
Why doesn’t he listen to you? You have apologized for all the complaints I had! Their list of complaints is long and you can’t possibly be to blame for everything. He knows it too. But his enthusiastic willingness to apologize for anything conveys desperation rather than growth. To get back with your ex boyfriend, I would have to respect you.
– You have repeatedly tried to reconcile, and have finally shut down.
Since you have friends and activities in common, he has noticed that you haven’t been close lately. He listens to people wonder if they’ve heard from you lately or if they know where you’ve been. This shows him that you are closing in without him. This is not a position that any sane person would be comfortable in! This shows a total dependency that many people are not willing to put up with.
It’s time for you to accept that you can’t get back together with your ex boyfriend. You made too many wrong moves at a very sensitive time, and he’s likely making sure your paths don’t cross anymore.