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In a relationship, it is not uncommon for one person to be logical and the other emotional. Then it may seem that one person provides what the other lacks, balancing each other.
By themselves they are unbalanced, but together they end up becoming the ultimate team. Perhaps one of them has a job where he mainly uses his left brain, while the other has a job where he mainly uses his right brain.
Two parts
When it comes to the person who mostly uses their left brain, they might have a job in the city, for example. This can mean that they spend a lot of time at a computer and in business meetings.
As for the person who primarily uses his right brain, he might as well have a job in the city. However, even if this is the case, it may mean that they do something creative or they may spend a lot of time caring for others in some way.
A little of both
However, just because you both have a stronger connection to one part of your nature, it doesn’t mean that the other part of your being is completely underdeveloped. As a result of this, the person who is primarily logical will still be able to relate on an emotional level, and the person who is emotional will still be able to relate on a logical level.
If this were not the case, it might appear that one of them is from Mars while the other is from Venus. They would be so different from each other that the relationship would end up being a great challenge.
A stronger connection
Therefore, as both of you can relate on an emotional level, it will allow you to have a much more satisfying relationship than otherwise. And since you can both think clearly, this will help too.
So it could be said that being different is what brought them together, but it is what they have in common that holds them together. This does not mean that conflict will never arise; what it means is that they will have the ability to solve it.
Polarity
Naturally, if they were too similar, it is unlikely that they would have the same level of attraction for each other. Instead of being intimate, they could end up just being friends.
One of them will have a strong connection to your masculine element and the other will have a strong connection to your feminine element. This will allow them to work together rather than having the need to compete with each other.
A different scenario
Now, although there will be relationships that will be like that, where two people complement each other, there will also be relationships that will not be like that. Instead, there may be a relationship where one person is very logical and finds it difficult to relate on an emotional level, while the other is very emotional and finds it difficult to relate on a logical level.
Consequently, many conflicts are likely to arise in their relationship and it will be a challenge for them to resolve them. The view that one of them is from Mars and the other from Venus may make perfect sense.
The problem
When it comes to the person whose attention is normally focused on their head, they may view their partner as underdeveloped and lacking self-control, for example. They may find it difficult to understand how they ended up with someone like that.
Much of your time could be spent reading books and educating your mind, something your partner will probably have no interest in doing. On the surface, it may appear that one of them is much more evolved than the other.
A common perspective
What can play a role in this is that the intellect is often seen as a higher part of one’s being than one’s emotional self. It can be as if one’s emotions are just a distraction and should be overlooked.
Because of this, it won’t come as a surprise if they see themselves in a superior position. However, although they may have this point of view, it does not mean that it is the truth.
Out of balance
Intellectually, this person may have evolved, but when it comes to their emotional self, they may be underdeveloped. The person they are with simply reflects what is going on within them.
If you don’t have a good connection to your emotional self, you won’t be able to see the connection. The other person will be seen as the one with the problems, while they are above all else.
Heavy top
If you were to get in touch with your emotional self, you may find that you are carrying a lot of emotional pain. Getting out of your head and embracing the pain in your body can make you as out of control as your partner usually is.
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The problem with your mind is that it can give you the impression that you are simply observing what is going on around you, to no avail. They actually play a role in what they experience or not.
Conscience
If you can relate to this and want to become a more integrated human being, you may need to seek outside support. This is something that can be provided with the help of a therapist or healer.
