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Boomers are the most vulnerable of all age groups when it comes to dating. They have been through a bitter divorce or their loved one passed away leaving them at the loneliest time of their life. Many have saved money since their early years and have large bank accounts, stocks, and bonds.
Growing old with your spouse was safe until tragedy struck. They are left alone to defend themselves in a depressed state, wondering why life was so unfair to them. Some go to therapy while others take depressant medications and others seek guidance from their children, and some join dating sites for companionship.
Scammers have become popular on the dating scene knowing that boomers are easy targets to wipe their bank account. Dating boomers need to go to a good dating site. They should ask questions and make sure the dating company conducts background checks and reviews all members.
Help eliminate scammers, criminals and drug dealers. Although their system is not perfect, most losers will be rejected as members. Boomers’ biggest mistake is giving too much personal information on their first date. Well-off boomers wear expensive clothes, jewelry, watches, and drive fancy cars.
They should dress casually like most ordinary people. Leave expensive jewelry at home, wear jewelry, and drive a cheaper car. Suppose you find your match and look like a million dollars. If they like their date, they won’t know if they like it for themselves or if they are looking for money.
Never give financial information to a date or anyone else, or tell them where you live. After you have been seeing this person for a while, then you can tell him where he lives. You still need to watch out for the scam game, like leaving your wallet at home, waiting for a real estate deal to close, or having an accident and needing money until a check arrives in the mail.
Cons love to play the waiting game and are good actors. They know that given enough time, they can discourage you from telling them what they want to hear. Lonely boomers are so lonely that they fall in love with any old game and end up losing a fortune giving in to the scam because they felt sorry for them and trusted their instincts that led the scam to the boom bank account.
Make sure the dating service helps you with your profile and is as specific as possible without giving too much information. They will match you with someone you like, but remember that it is not one hundred percent foolproof. Boomers need to be careful on their first date and on all subsequent dates.
