As the summer months approach, activities that are unique to summer remind us how important it is to plan all year long. With their children out of school, many parents seek programs and activities to reinforce academics, awaken interests and passions, or complement athletic talents by enrolling them in day camps and outside of school to avoid sitting in front of the television or television. computer throughout the summer, especially if both parents work.
Before you and your spouse begin mediation, it is vital that you both know your children’s interests and the future they want to pursue. You should know this because there is a lot of work involved in choosing a program and the costs associated with these programs.
Researching youth summer camps is one of the most important things you will do when planning for your child’s safety. Remember, the Internet is your best friend in locating a camp and thoroughly researching its references, staff, facilities, and reputation. Google is the answer to an anxious parent’s prayer. Getting a complete list of all full and part-time staff, your vendors, and consultants is the first step. Research everyone on the list. Beware of people who change jobs frequently or who have been associated with illegal or unethical practices.
But who is going to do this job? Who will provide the transportation? Who is going to pay for the camp? What about recitals, parenting days, or performances? Parents can alternate events or put differences aside and be there for their child, but these decisions must be made in mediation and included in their divorce agreement. In the event that your children currently have no interest in day camps or away from home, remember that you can return to mediation to modify your agreement.
There is an important consideration when thinking about camping. Some children are not comfortable leaving home or in new social situations, especially after a close divorce. Talk and listen to your children on this topic and follow their example. Nothing can be as harmful as forcing your child to go to camp, even if they feel like once they’ve tried it, they’ll love it. After divorce, with the family dynamics changing so much, it is important to let your child define his changing role in the family and “getting fired” can undo all of your hard work to restore security and self-esteem.
Some children look at the wide variety of programs available and see opportunities to satisfy their interests and spend time learning and socializing with like-minded youth. This experience can build confidence and independence. If you feel your child is interested, encourage him to try new things.