Men often reflect the same aggressive traits as their best canine friends; females imitate felines. If you were imagining that violence is limited to men, you have not met the enraged, biting and clawing demon that she cat that violent women are capable of transforming into. Looking for the perfect girl? We recommend that you learn the subtle signs that will help you avoid “catching” a woman who thinks cat scratch fever is a love game.
Before you get too involved with any woman, take her out and see how she relates to others in social settings. Just as a cat makes its entrance by stretching and slowly gliding across the room to allow you to pet it, females use social settings as a catwalk to introduce themselves. When violence is an underlying part of a personality, the animal instinct rules; cats bite, scratch, jump and attack. Expect some version of the same if violence is the game.
1. Always the same – See how he makes his entry in any meeting. Does she walk by your side, arms relaxed at her sides and engaged in your conversation? If you walk down the center of the hallway or hallway, head up, arms extended from body, or hands on hips, get the clue. This signifies his intention to dominate the space and perhaps you, as he forces others to move to the side. This is the grooming seen in cats when they enter a room where a potential rival may be waiting. Slow deliberate steps, eyes alert and sizing up the prey.
2. Always a surprise: rulers set the rules; they have no reason to follow them. Be on the lookout for breaking social rules as a pattern of behavior. This includes invading space, talking about others, interrupting others who are speaking, and even using foul language in respectful settings. Cats do this by waiting under chairs and beds for you to pass. When you get close enough, a long leg is extended with claws extended to “slap you.” Who’s in charge now?
3. Always as before: women use hand gestures to dominate. Look for the circular or side-to-side motion of your hand in the air, usually in front of the body or face; a sign that he is erasing what you say. Other words are not important. The same occurs with the palm extended towards the speaker, the “speak with the paw” signal. Here is the cat that strikes the air with its paw; you are bothering them.
4. Always just as sure: dominate group time by saying what they have to say and then telling others that they have little time to listen. This extends to constantly checking the time or leaving early, denying others the opportunity to speak. This is the cat that ‘allows’ you to pet him and calmly gets up and walks away without even looking back.
5. A tale as old as time: disturbing facial cues including puckering of the lips, frowning with disapproval and judgment, teasing disguised as smiles, squinting apparently suspiciously, or refusing to make eye contact with the speaker; “You are a waste of my time.” Beware; This is the cat that has found a safe position to observe and plans to jump. You may find this to be over the top if the person speaking is another attractive woman who seems to get your attention.
6. Tune As Old As Song – Making derogatory and derogatory remarks or belittling others is not just a sign of insecurity, it also signifies the intention to dominate the playing field. This requires decimating the other contenders; it is a no-win situation where peace is typically restored by others in the group acting submissively to stop the attack. This is the jump and attack from the perch that the cat was waiting for.
7. Bittersweet and weird – Making a scene, yelling, throwing things, or any other loud, disturbing, and demeaning behavior that is intended to turn into a confrontation with any challenger. This is a “Try me, make my day” statement that suggests that she is willing to fight or attack publicly. It is shocking for those who witness it and satisfying for her. She feels like she has pushed everyone back and let them know that she is the alpha female in the room. This is the feline that bites, scratches and attacks and now appears to be possessed by the devil.
8. Learn I was wrong – Show off displays of power or wealth in a group; including displaying a Hermes bag, shoes that cost a fortune, manipulating rings or other jewelry to draw attention to them, talking about how much her clothes cost or anything else with the intention of letting everyone know that she has the biggest and most better and you intend to dominate the group with your screens. This is the grooming, paw licking, and capering that we witness in felines.
9. Song as old as rhyme: The overt displays of his body are an emulation of a man intentionally showing or drawing attention to his crotch, even if he is clothed. This is a phallic symbol that forces others to recognize the power of their sexuality. Your message; “I am as strong and powerful as any man.” This is the cat that purrs contently while you scratch it and then suddenly bursts into biting and scratching for no apparent reason.
Take a moment to study the body language and subtle suggestions that each woman displays when reacting in social encounters. This is where you can find out who she really is … Beauty or the Beast! If you encounter these signs, you may want to go for the female version of a socialized cat who understands the value of a mate. Taming a cat that causes scratch fever may seem like a fun challenge, but it can be fatal. If you are still unsure, you may want to invest in a psychological evaluation.