Unlike the love button for women or the penis for men, anal stimulation can be a bit hit and miss in the pleasure department. Too quickly? Everything is tightened. Too dry? Cuts and tears are likely. Too much movement? In fact, it can be a bit nauseating. Whether you are male or female, if you can feel yourself on the verge of exploding with anal intercourse but can’t hit the trigger, we have 7 tricks you can use to get better anal toy orgasms.
- Use an anal douche beforehand – Nothing will be comfortable, be it a human or adult toy, unless it is clean and fully prepared. Don’t use enemas though – they are a medical procedure and too invasive for regular play.
- Make sure to use specific toys for the anus – Sex toys that are made for anal play often have a flared end to prevent loss and are made of non-porous material so they can be fully boiled and disinfected.
- ALWAYS use lubricant! – While your normal parts will happily do their own lubrication, your anus isn’t always that helpful. You should always use lubricant for anal play; saliva is generally insufficient. Use a specific anal lubricant or silicone lubricant if you are using plastic or rubber toys, but you will need to use a water-based lubricant with silicone toys.
- Look for real feeling anal sex toys – Cold and too soft anal toys can be unpleasant for some people; try a real touch toy made of cyberskin or silicone.
- Try an anal plug – While the sensation of movement within the back room may be a bit excessive for the first time, the gentle presence and stimulation of an anal plug can be an excellent introduction to anal play and anal intercourse in general.
- Enter vibration – Both guys and girls can get quite horny and heavy with a vibrating anal toy, if used correctly! Don’t think of vibrating anal toys as something only “advanced” users should try; The better your initial encounters with anal sex toys feel, the more likely you are to want to try again.
- Go to anal beads – Unlike vibrating toys, anal beads are a sex toy for those who want to go beyond the basics. They withdraw, either slowly or quickly, just before reaching orgasm or while cumming. However, if you’re still training with anal sex toys, you might find that the movement makes you squeeze … it hurts, you tear, and then you give up anal play forever. Save them for later!